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Clayton M. M. La Vigne's avatar

Cameron, this topic angers me to no end.

I’ve run across so many people, after I mention to them a good idea, they confirm it’s a good idea, but once they find out where I got the idea from, all of a sudden it’s a bad idea.

It has gotten to the point where I am reticent when someone asks me where I got an idea from, particularly when I reveal that it was someone else’s idea. As per a lesson in a York Rite degree, I do mention that I received an idea from someone else, and if I did come up with an idea on my own (like those times you wake up at 2:00 AM with that light bulb moment) then I’ll not volunteer it, but tell them the truth if asked. But there are times where people, whether it be Masonic Brothers, family members, or even business customers, will ask for where I got information, an idea, or a concept, and I know the person doesn’t see eye to eye with the person I was talking with earlier. And at times I’ll call out that person.

“Where did you hear that idea?”

“I’d tell you, but I know you’ll change your mind if I tell you…”

“Just tell me!”

“Okay, it was so-and-so.”

“You mean that butthead? He’s more full of crap than a Christmas goose! That’s a dumb idea, don’t listen to him!”

“But you just said it was a good idea a few minutes ago…”

And then the person gets really mad after that. And it shouldn’t be that way. Just because you don’t agree or like a person doesn’t mean they can’t come up with a nugget of wisdom.

This problem is WAAAAAY too common. And even further, we really need to look in the mirror to ensure that we ourselves are not part of the problem. Or to admonish our Brothers who we find making such judgements. Yet another way that Freemasonry can help our good men become better through iron sharpening iron (Proverbs 27:17).

Bob Brockman's avatar

Messages, in and of themselves, are only information. For me, the validity of a message is weighed upon the messenger. If I feel the messenger lacks integrity, I’ll look at the message more critically. It doesn’t mean the message isn’t important or that something can’t be learned. We should read books like The Book of Laws if we hope to have coherent conversations about controversial topics such as this. I’ve not read the book, and to be honest, don’t believe I’d heard of it until today. I have heard of AC and so, if I were to read it, I would do so with a critical eye, hoping to learn something or at least be able to talk about it.

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