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David Augustson's avatar

I agree totally RWB. Too many times I've been told this man is a friend of mine and I just talked him into becoming a Mason. Did you follow the 6 steps? What other Brothers have met him? Did you have to beg him to make a decision, that will affect not only him as well as the craft? Invite him to breakfast with a few of the fraternity, let us see for ourselves how he would fit into our Lodge. We're not a social club, but on the other hand we socialize with each other. Never ever twist a Brothers arm to sign a petition, just because this man is your friend. I've seen the disaster of All-the-Way-In-a-Day Degrees and even though the numbers coming in, it's the number of those who stay for the long run. Mercenary motives in joining has led a Brother to ruin my business and others lives. Be wary, but inviting. Don't rush in, or rush to judgment. Let time be the monitor. I have 3 candidates who waited a time with patience for restrictions to be lifted, so they could join our fraternity. Even though right now we cannot initiate, we can now vote to initiate the process.

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Mike Priddy's avatar

This is an issue that is very important to me. I want to start by saying the average man is likely a good man. I have always thought the test was, "is he good enough to benefit from being a Mason? " Just being good, is not good enough, a man has to be good and WANT to be better. The next thing that matters is what he means by better? Richer? More powerful? More politically affluent? No thanks. Does he want to be seen as better, through association?, No thanks. In my opinion the 'better' that is best is a man who is trying his best to be compassionate, spiritual and enlightened, a man who seeks the strength to act on those qualities for the betterment of everyone, not just himself. The better that is best, in my opinion is a man who wrestles with himself, already trying to subdue his passions. What I have seen, because of the economic stress of our huge temples and the diminishing membership, is that we have all but started the wholesale recruiting of males (men who act like teenagers), not even necessarily men. Twice in the last 10 years men I have called brothers, who I have worked with, have been convicted of child sexual crimes. Ironically in one case it was a child pornography case and brethren in Lodge quit because that man was expelled, feeling that child pornography did not hurt anyone! Let that sink in, men who were Masons quit Masonry because a child pornographer was expelled. I have seen petty childish behavior, some of it threatening and destructive (property not just emotionally). We have to do better or there is no point. I hate to say this, but if I am being 100% truthful, the fact that a man is a Mason no longer equates in my heart to him being a 'good man' automatically. I am still open to the idea that he is a good man, but it's not automatic. I know all men are flawed, as am I, thats the human condition, but there is a moral and ethical line the good men with flaws will not cross. We have new tools available to us. We can do criminal searchs electronically, we can check with other jurisdictions to make sure a man has not been expelled from another Grand Lodge, and we can start viewing the investigation as something meant to weed out unqualified men, rather than something we just do out of routine. Once a man becomes a brother we can hold him accountable to a higher standard. I feel bad writing what I wrote, but I think we need to start having this conversation.

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