I have of course discussed Masonic issues with probably hundreds of Masons through the years, and people close to Masonry, primarily my wife, but I don't think I've ever discussed something like this with someone so far removed from Masonry before. Having done so, I think it brings a bit deeper understanding to that line in our ritual.
It is a lesson with deep meaning. When one has no agenda other than the interest and well being of another person there is potential for profound outcomes. I’ve seen it both inside and outside of the craft.
You do hit a live wire now and then. Once in my Rochester NY area Masonic Lodge, a fairly well off Brother I previously respected rose, was recognized by me to speak, but started to tell us in our Lodge Meeting, how much each Lodge Member should donate to the Lodge (% of the $$ holdings of each Brother). As Worshipful Master that year, I felt it necessary to "gavel" him down)! Hmmm...
I can imagine that would indeed be quite contentious. Lots of guys freak out when even proposals to raise dues are brought up, I can't imagine how they would react if someone started advocating that Freemasonry take a percentage of assets or income!
Sometimes when things go so far astray due to differences in perspective or opinions the only way back is to involve a disinterested party. This is why many hire outside consultants to perform a review or analysis of their businesses or organizations. To see the things they overlook or are unwilling or unable to address.
Hopefully we can maintain sufficient comfort among Brethren to have these conversations before it becomes necessary to involve "outside help" as you put it. Though sometimes it is necessary if we let things go too far for too long. More often than not, all involved want a resolution to the issues, they just can't always see the solution. Missing the forest for the trees as it were.
“May you long enjoy every satisfaction and delight which disinterested friendship can afford.”
I have of course discussed Masonic issues with probably hundreds of Masons through the years, and people close to Masonry, primarily my wife, but I don't think I've ever discussed something like this with someone so far removed from Masonry before. Having done so, I think it brings a bit deeper understanding to that line in our ritual.
It is a lesson with deep meaning. When one has no agenda other than the interest and well being of another person there is potential for profound outcomes. I’ve seen it both inside and outside of the craft.
MWPGM Bailey,
You do hit a live wire now and then. Once in my Rochester NY area Masonic Lodge, a fairly well off Brother I previously respected rose, was recognized by me to speak, but started to tell us in our Lodge Meeting, how much each Lodge Member should donate to the Lodge (% of the $$ holdings of each Brother). As Worshipful Master that year, I felt it necessary to "gavel" him down)! Hmmm...
I can imagine that would indeed be quite contentious. Lots of guys freak out when even proposals to raise dues are brought up, I can't imagine how they would react if someone started advocating that Freemasonry take a percentage of assets or income!
Sometimes when things go so far astray due to differences in perspective or opinions the only way back is to involve a disinterested party. This is why many hire outside consultants to perform a review or analysis of their businesses or organizations. To see the things they overlook or are unwilling or unable to address.
Hopefully we can maintain sufficient comfort among Brethren to have these conversations before it becomes necessary to involve "outside help" as you put it. Though sometimes it is necessary if we let things go too far for too long. More often than not, all involved want a resolution to the issues, they just can't always see the solution. Missing the forest for the trees as it were.
Great post, and an excellent point to consider.