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Glenn Geiss's avatar

I’d also suggest that Memorial Day shouldn’t just be for our fallen soldiers, but also spend some time remembering your family members that have passed as well. I try and go out once a year to a local cemetery where the vast majority of my relatives are buried on my father’s side. My mom’s side are all up in British Columbia, which is a bit more of a struggle.

But my dad had 16 brothers and sisters as well as his parents, all of which have passed. Going to the cemetery is a little more than a quick jaunt. They are scattered from one end to the other, although most are situated in a relatively small area. I had worked with the cemetery caretakers and got maps and plots of just about all of them, using the website findagrave.com to fill in missing pieces and just happenstance to wander around and finding others.

It’s sad that a large number of my relatives are long forgotten and neglected by the rest of their children and grandchildren, and someday I’m going to be just as forgotten as the others. I think that is in the back of a lot of masons mind as they age - what legacy will I have left behind, will it be enough to be remembered in 100 years?

All masons should strive to be that one, not just some guy who wore a ring with a square and compass. Maybe you won’t, but you should try.

Live respected, die regretted.

Jon Lind's avatar

Great time for reflection, scotch toasts, and Masonry.

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