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WB Quinn Allan Haase's avatar

I see this across all avenues of the fraternity: the men who’ve been there for decades claim they want to see it thrive. They claim they want young men to be interested, invested, and dedicated. They claim they want to retain their existing members. And yet, for similar reasons you have mentioned, they seem often unwilling to do the work to change the culture of Masonry to meet the needs of a modern man. Let be clear: Masonry does not need fixing. It is an ancient system veiled in a flavor that was interesting and relevant for the past few hundred years. A savvy man can work to see the light it has offered mankind since before any can claim to remember. But Masonry can change, has changed, and it will again. If we cannot evolve, adapt, and grow, then we deserve to fade into the annals of time.

What I notice is a poisoning of the lodge. Well meaning men, who have pride in the craft and it’s illustrious work and celebrated history, are unwittingly causing it’s demise. They assume, erroneously, that just because it’s been done that way since they’ve been members, that changing it would be a bad thing. They hold onto the glory days of our craft when it was perhaps little more than a social club and had the admiration and respect of our communities. The tragedy being that those men who come to it now, at its lowest point in popularity in living memory, are the ones who see the deeper, perhaps more ancient intent and meaning. They aren’t joining for the perks, to be sure. But they join only to see that the elders in their lodge don’t seem to take the tenants of our order as seriously, and in fact act so “unmasonically” they lose heart at their most crucial time in their Masonic journey.

I’m not a Scottish Rite, nor York Rite Mason myself. I did join the Shrine last year and it perhaps epitomizes my feelings as above. It is an institution with a mission at its core that is undeniably “the greatest philanthropy”. Yet it’s history and customs are nothing short of fetishizing Middle Eastern culture and it’s practices are so reliant on a “social club” style structure that was very popular the last 100 years or so, but perhaps isn’t just what a modern man finds necessary. Would it harm the institution to exchange the word “lady” for the word “partner” in its numerous appearance in their messaging? It makes an assumption, however innocuous it intent, that to a modern man just reeks of “the old ways”. And it might serve to drive away a good man who otherwise would have made a valuable addition to these institutions.

Like you said, we must reflect upon who we’ve been, who we are, and who we want to become. There’s so much history (and amazing foresight) in each of those avenues, that there is room for everyone.

Mike Priddy's avatar

I agree with everything you said.

This conversation is linked to another issue I have, that I think is related. “Retrograde idealization”. My goodness we look backwards a lot, living on withered laurels. I have read, though not confirmed, that in 1900 about 80% of American homes had fraternal affiliations. Today, I would guess that number might be as high as the single digits. Freemasonry was the most prestigious of the fraternities, and attracted the best men from around the world. When men who shaped the world also had our grand titles those titles seemed legit. Those days have passed. Additionally, a little research will reveal that many of those men were actively pursuing the mysteries and wisdom of their Masonic traditions. And they were rewarded by those efforts with elevation in the fraternity. Yes, there are men like that in our fraternity now, but there is little link between Masonic titles and that kind of work now. Today, if I use all my titles and affiliations and fill my lapel with every Masonic pin, I am entitled to wear I look like a Russian Naval officer, pretending to be an Imperial Romanov!

As our numbers decrease, and we continue to try to maintain infrastructure established when our Lodges were over full, when many off our affiliated bodies struggle to have enough enthusiasm to operate, I think the whole way we think our ourselves needs to be rethought. The core of Freemasonry is the Blue Lodge. There is NO Masonic title more sublime than Master Mason, there is no organization more prestigious, than Blue Lodge. There are more specialized organizations, and there are more specialized titles, but not more prestigious. A man who has achieved some level of success integrating the lessons of the first three degrees is a prince among men, and NO lapel pin is more prestigious that the square and compass of a Master Mason. Calling myself a Knight Templar, or a Master of the Royal Secret means very little if I have not done more than receive the title after a hurried ritual.

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