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I asking myself, what would George Washington be doing about now?

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“I would suggest that much of this is a symptom of the disease of incivility that has gripped our entire society. To identify a friend, colleague, neighbor, or even a family member as an enemy, as someone who needs to be silenced.” I love debate. I guess that comes when you work with the public as a small business owner for a quarter century. Why would I want to silence someone on the other side that’s willing to calmly and civilly discuss their stance? It’s a learning opportunity. I’m not afraid to adjust my viewpoint based on additional points of view. And the person on the “other side” appreciates the respect I show them. It’s a win-win situation.

“To engage in online witch hunts, saying the most horrific things possible while hiding behind a computer screen.” To me, it’s just like people’s poor driving habits. I’ve brought up in Lodge meetings to debate about whether people’s driving habits are a reflection of their true character. An example is the 1950 Disney short cartoon “Motor Mania,” featuring Goofy as Mr. Walker and Mr. Wheeler. While the goal of the cartoon is to show bad driving habits, I think it also shows who we really are, in the apparent anonymity of our automobiles. Same thing with the computer. The son of one of our late Past Masters was mean to his father, almost vile, in the comments made on our Past Master’s social media posts. It really angered me that he treated our Brother that way online. Yet when I met him in person, he was meek, with a light handshake and a whimpering voice, almost what you would call a “wimp.” You would have never guessed he would have made those comments online. Same thing with E-mails. At times I and others have noticed some people have two versions – the in-person version, and the “E-mail” version. Jekyll and Hyde yet again. Once again, for us Freemasons, we can follow our Charges and the lessons in our Lectures, and chip off those rough edges that really show themselves when we engage people in our cars, in social media, or other indirect methods of communication.

The charges in our degrees, as well as our lectures, really drive home the point of how we carry ourselves not only among our Brethren, but out in the world, should be an example of what we all should be doing. While everyone else is out there behaving like the Tasmanian Devil, the people known to be Freemasons should be out there behaving properly, and according to our Lectures and Charges. Doing the Right Thing. Setting an example. And when a Brother doesn’t do that, his Brethren should be admonishing him, and not be afraid to do so. It has helped me immensely through the years, when I miss a step and do something stupid, many Brethren in my Lodges have “scolded” me in a proper, constructive manner, and I listened. And I learned.

This is what this Fraternity is all about, my Brothers. It’s what we came here to do.

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