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Brother Rob's avatar

Hear, hear!! I was going to write more, but it's all just enthusiastic agreement.

In our own jurisdiction there's a fella who openly admitted that his favorite pastime was getting liquored up and going for a motorcycle ride. His love of drink and bad decisions resulted in wife beating, a standoff with police, threats of suicide by SWAT, and eventually he got tased, hog-tied, and jailed. He was let out on bond, and his wife was granted a protective order, which he promptly violated.

He took the wise counsel of some brothers and promptly withdrew his membership before anything was finalized in court so as to avoid the embarrassment of Masonic charges.

Now... there are some brothers in other lodges, and at least one in our own (who hasn't cast his shadow in lodge for two or more years), who are very openly advocating for us to restore his membership because "what we did to him was unfair and misunderstood." "If he wants to be a Mason, he should be allowed to be. His grandfather was a Mason."

Their justification? That the charges were dropped because his wife (God bless the woman, I pray she gets help) took him back because they've been together 40 years, and that's just how things go with them.

They forget this dude is a pretty well-known realtor in our tiny town, that his mug shot was all over the town Facebook group that contains two-thirds of the population, that four law enforcement agencies responded to the incident... and that the guy, in his own voice, held forth for FOUR HOURS on the phone with me, the Secretary, admitting everything that happened, his whole history, and that SINCE then... he's still drinking, has sought no program for self-betterment, etc.

Thank goodness our Blue Book says that after a member withdraws, the ONLY way he can be restored is through the lodge he withdrew from. Even if he moved to a new town, it still comes through us. And no criminal charges need to be filed or even "stick" in order for Masonic charges to be brought for conduct unbecoming that brings discredit upon the fraternity.

I had actually written an essay about it a while ago. It's still sitting in my drafts. The audacity of some people gets me fired up sometimes...

Joel Brunk's avatar

We often hear the charge to guard the West Gate, but what does it really mean? It isn't just about keeping good or bad men out—it is about preserving the future of our Lodge. There are many good men in our communities, but not every good man is prepared to become a good Mason. Freemasonry asks more than honesty and kindness; it asks for a sincere desire to improve oneself, a willingness to serve others, and a commitment to uphold the principles of our Craft.

Every petitioner has the potential to shape the future of our Lodge—good, bad, or otherwise. The Brother we welcome today will leave his mark, whether by strengthening our traditions, challenging our harmony, or inspiring those who follow. That is why guarding the West Gate is one of our most important responsibilities. By carefully distinguishing between a good man and a man who is truly ready to embrace the obligations of Freemasonry, we honor those who came before us and preserve the legacy we will leave to those who follow.

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