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Clayton M. M. La Vigne's avatar

It’s true, though.

The newer generation is seeking out the tough instructions and critiques. Not crotchety griping, rather suggestions for improvement and admonishments for not maintaining standards.

That, of course, puts the responsibility back on the mentors. WE have to maintain our excellence in what we do. When WE are excellent, the young crowd will emulate us, and if we have anything to say, they WILL listen to us, as long as we maintain the standard.

Back about 2009 or so, one of our Past Deputies needed to take Part ‘B’ of the Proficiency in Lodge Management exam. This involves reciting the ritual needed to open and close a Lodge, call up and down through the degrees and also calling from Labor to Refreshment and back. Out of courtesy as I followed him as Deputy (I was Deputy at the time) I asked how hard did he want me to test him. He wanted it at the level I was working at, as we were both Deputies/Past Deputies. We started at 7:30 PM at the Lodge. I got home around 1 in the morning. There were times where I was starting to get frustrated, but he reminded me that he wanted to do it right, and not to lower my standards. And I didn’t. He did indeed pass.

And the same applied to me. I received my proficiency in the Standard Work in each degree, one at a time, refreshing the previous ones as I tackled the new ones. Three different Deputies, including Cameron. All of them held me to that same Standard, and just like that Past Deputy, it took a while. And it was also frustrating and taxing, but it was worth it.

Iron sharpens iron. The young men are joining our Fraternity for that reason, not to find iron being “sharpened” by plastic butter knives. The “Happy Days” era was cool for its time, but it’s nostalgia. It no longer applies today.

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"What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; 'tis dearness only that gives everything its value" - Thomas Paine 1776

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